Turns on: I'm turned on by passionate kisses while they begin to touch me with their fingertips in a soft and delicate way. I love kisses on the back and gentle tongue massages. During sex, I love passionate and wild lovemaking.. Turns off: I'm bothered by rude men. I'm a kind, gentle, and respectful girl; I hope they treat me the same way. If something about me bothers you, you can say so without any problem, but using appropriate language. I will always respect you and treat you well..